While we use our vetting process to help protect this balance, every member plays their own role in shaping the group as a whole. We are a queer-centered BIPOC-led group with a commitment to creating a balanced and diverse community. We ask that you be mindful about the individuals that you are are bringing into our community and into our space. Members may also endorse candidates during their application process. You will be required to purchase your guest’s tickets, and must enter and leave the event at the same time as your guests. There is no expectation that you and your guests are romantically or sexually linked, as long as you feel comfortable with them, and the pact that you are entering together. You are responsible for their behavior that evening and vice-versa. By bringing a non-member, you are vouching for them. Members of The Wink may invite guests to accompany them to our events. We love it when our members are excited about their experiences at The Wink and want to share it with their friends! A few considerations: If you ever feel lonely, confused or uncomfortable, talk to an Angel! Angels are very visible in their cute angel sashes and are there to provide support, address issues and answer any questions you might have. Guardian Angels are present in the bedroom and are available to make sure that everyone is having a safe, sound and satisfactory time at our event. Aggressive actions, toxic behavior, and physical violence are not tolerated and should be brought to the attention of our Guardian Angels. We also ask that members are forthcoming with their partners about their STI status and use condoms/dams as desired.
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Please make sure that you are in a solid headspace, do not drag baggage or bad energy into our parties. Before attending a party, you should establish your intentions and boundaries for the evening, both with yourself and with your partners. Please be in good health, and not displaying symptoms of any communicable illness.
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We ask that all participants be physically and mentally prepared for an event such as ours when they arrive.